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SPEAK WEDNESDAY ON THE COST OF A PERIOD

Miriam sat at the back of the classroom, legs clenched tight, heart pounding. The teacher’s voice faded into a blur—her mind was too loud, drowning in fear.

Is she stained? Could anyone see? If she stood up, would they laugh?

She had stuffed an old rag into her underwear that morning, the same one she had rinsed and reused last month. The same one that left rashes on her skin. The same one that might betray her any second.

She had already missed two days of school this month. Tomorrow would be the third.

Not because she’s lazy.
Not because she doesn’t want an education.
But because she can’t afford a pad.

Pads are no longer cheap, yet millions of girls are expected to find a way. They bleed in silence, miss class, and fall behind, all because pads are too expensive. 

How many dreams will bleed out simply because society refuses to act?

How many more girls will stay home, missing school, because they have no pads?
How many will sit in class, hearts racing, not because of an exam, but because they fear a stain?
How many will sit in shame, stuffing rags, leaves, sand, and newspapers in place of a pad?

Periods shouldn’t cost an education. It’s time to end the shame, the struggle, and the silence.

Menstrual health is a right, not a luxury. So why are we still letting girls suffer in silence? Why are pads taxed like luxury items?

Menstruation is not a weakness. It’s not an obstacle. It’s a sign of life, strength, and resilience.

 

We can’t stay silent. Speak Every Wednesday. Speak Every Day. Until We Act right.

 

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SPEAK WEDNESDAY ON CAN WE TALK ABOUT SEXUAL VIOLENCE WITHOUT SHAMING THE SURVIVORS

Let’s take a moment to reflect on a harsh reality: sexual violence is all around us. Whether we are scrolling through social media, watching the news, or even just walking through the streets, it is something that affects many lives. Yet, when we discuss it, the conversation often focuses on the wrong things—like blaming the victim. This issue is not just a global one; it deeply affects us here in Nigeria, where silence, shaming, and victim-blaming are common. But the time has come to change the narrative. Let’s talk about it, and let’s talk about it right.

Sexual Violence: A More Widespread Problem Than We Think
According to the World Health Organization (WHO), nearly 1 in 3 women and girls will experience physical or sexual violence at some point in their lives (WHO, 2021). This statistic doesn’t even account for the boys and men who face similar experiences. In Nigeria, the culture of silence and stigma makes these statistics even more striking, as many survivors feel too ashamed or afraid to speak out (National Population Commission, 2018).

Unfortunately, when we do talk about sexual violence, we often place the blame on the wrong people. Too often, the question becomes: What was she wearing? or Why did they go there alone? Instead of focusing on the person who committed the violence, society tends to scrutinize the survivor. This blame game must stop.

Blaming the Victim Achieves Nothing
We’ve all heard the harmful phrases: “She asked for it, “He must have done something to provoke it,” or “Why didn’t they report it sooner?”These comments are not just unhelpful, they perpetuate harmful myths and undermine the very people who need support. In doing so, society discourages survivors from coming forward, isolates them, and places an unjust burden of guilt on them.

Victims of sexual violence already face the heavy weight of trauma; the last thing they need is further harm in the form of blame or judgment. This cycle of victim-blaming serves no one and, in fact, only makes it harder for other survivors to speak out and seek help.

Breaking the Silence
The first step is simple: we must talk. Nigerian society often prefers to sweep uncomfortable topics like sexual violence under the rug, but silence only benefits the perpetrators.

Imagine a Nigeria where survivors could go to the police, to healthcare facilities, or even speak with a friend without fear of being questioned or blamed. Imagine a world where people feel safe to speak out and demand justice. That’s the world we must strive for and we have the power to make it a reality.

Let’s start now: Let’s end the culture of shame. Let’s end the silence. Let’s begin by truly listening to survivors and offering them the care and support they deserve. Together, we can shift the narrative and build a culture rooted in respect, empathy, and justice.

The fight against sexual violence is not just about legal reforms. It’s about changing the way we think, act, and support those affected. We all have a role to play. Let’s make sure survivors know: it was never your fault.

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MONDAY HEALTH BURST ON CERVICAL CANCER: KNOW THE FACTS, PROTECT YOUR HEALTH

Cervical cancer is a silent but serious public health concern, especially in low- and middle-income countries where access to screening and vaccination is limited. According to the World Health Organization (WHO), it is the 4th most common cancer among women worldwide, primarily caused by persistent infection with high-risk types of the human papillomavirus (HPV).1

The good news? Cervical cancer is largely preventable and treatable with early detection and the right preventive measures!

🚨 What Causes Cervical Cancer?

The #1 cause of cervical cancer is persistent HPV infection. Other key risk factors include: ✔️ Weakened immune system – Women with conditions like HIV are more vulnerable to persistent HPV infections. ✔️ Smoking – Tobacco damages cervical cells, increasing the risk of cancer. ✔️ Long-term use of oral contraceptives – Prolonged use may slightly increase the risk. ✔️ Multiple pregnancies – More full-term pregnancies can increase exposure to HPV and hormonal changes.

⚠️ Warning Signs & Symptoms

Cervical cancer often develops without symptoms in its early stages, making regular screening crucial! As it progresses, symptoms may include: 🔴 Unusual vaginal bleeding (between periods, after intercourse, or post-menopause) 🔴 Pelvic pain or pain during sexual intercourse 🔴 Abnormal vaginal discharge (watery, bloody, or foul-smelling) 🔴 Frequent or painful urination (in advanced cases)

🚩 Who is at Risk? Know Your Risks!

Certain factors increase the likelihood of cervical cancer, such as: ✅ Persistent HPV Infection – The leading risk factor. ✅ Early sexual activity – Exposure to HPV at a young age. ✅ Multiple sexual partners – Increases the risk of HPV transmission. ✅ Smoking – Toxic chemicals in tobacco damage cervical cells. ✅ Family history – A genetic link may contribute to risk. ✅ Immunosuppression – Conditions like HIV/AIDS weaken the body’s defense against HPV. ✅ Lack of screening – Not undergoing regular Pap smears or HPV tests increases late-stage diagnosis risk.

Prevention is Key: What You Can Do!

💉 Get vaccinated! The HPV vaccine is a powerful tool in preventing cervical cancer. 🩺 Go for regular screenings – Pap smears & HPV tests can catch abnormalities early. 🚭 Quit smoking – Reducing tobacco use lowers your risk. 🔍 Practice safe sex – Using condoms can help reduce HPV transmission.

Cervical cancer does not have to be a death sentence. With awareness, screening, and vaccination, we can eliminate cervical cancer and save countless lives. Share this message, encourage women to get screened, and let’s fight cervical cancer together! 💪

#CervicalCancerAwareness #HPVPrevention #WomensHealth #ScreeningSavesLives #NPHCDA

Reference:

  1. Cervical cancer

 

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SPEAK WEDNESDAY ON HOW CAN SCHOOLS ENCOURAGE MORE GIRLS TO PURSUE STEM CAREERS?

Why do we still hear “STEM isn’t for girls” in 2025? Despite significant progress, women remain underrepresented in science, technology, engineering, and math. The numbers tell a clear story: according to UNESCO, only 28% of the world’s STEM workforce is female. But here’s the catch, research consistently shows that girls perform just as well as boys in math and science. So, if ability isn’t the issue, what is?

The answer lies in subtle biases, lack of representation, and systemic barriers that start early in education. But schools have the power to change this. They can introduce students to women in STEM through guest speakers, workshops, and mentorship programs. Seeing real-life examples makes these careers feel achievable. Revamping curricula to highlight historical and modern female STEM leaders ensures girls see themselves in these fields. Creating STEM clubs or initiatives specifically designed for girls can foster confidence and interest.

Gender stereotypes often shape students’ aspirations. A study by the American Association of University Women found that teachers and parents often unintentionally discourage girls from pursuing technical fields. Training educators to recognize and eliminate gender bias in teaching methods and classroom interactions is essential. Encouraging girls to take part in STEM competitions, robotics clubs, and coding boot camps helps dismantle the idea that STEM is only for boys. Using gender-neutral language when discussing careers makes a significant difference.

Confidence is another major barrier. Girls often underestimate their abilities in STEM, even when their performance is equal to or better than their male peers. Encouraging resilience and problem-solving instead of perfectionism fosters a growth mindset. Mentorship and peer support programs, where older female students or professionals guide younger girls, can be incredibly impactful. Schools should actively celebrate girls’ achievements in STEM through awards and public recognition to reinforce their belonging in these fields.

Schools shape futures. If we truly want to see gender equality in STEM, the change must start now. The answer isn’t just in policies or statistics, it’s in every classroom, every lesson, and every teacher who believes that a girl’s place is wherever she wants to be. The future of STEM is diverse. The question is, are we ready to build it?

Speak Wednesday is an initiative of CFHI to address issues around gender-based violence and gender bias.

#SpeakWednesday #GirlsInSTEM #STEMEducation #WomenInSTEM #GenderEquality #FutureIsSTEM #EducationForAll #BreakTheBias

 

 

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MONDAY HEALTH BURST ON HEALTH RISKS ASSOCIATED WITH FEMALE GENITAL MUTILATION

Last week, we explored the Impact of Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) on Reproductive Health, shedding light on how this practice affects women’s reproductive systems and their overall well-being. This week’s article serves as a continuation, delving deeper into the immediate and long-term health risks associated with FGM.

Immediate Health Risks

  1. Severe Pain and Shock: The procedure is often performed without anesthesia, causing unbearable pain and trauma, which can lead to shock and, in extreme cases, death.
  2. Excessive Bleeding (Hemorrhage): Due to the crude instruments used, excessive bleeding is a common complication, which can result in fatal blood loss.
  3. Infections: Unhygienic conditions and unsterilized tools increase the risk of infections, including tetanus and sepsis.
  4. Urinary Complications: Swelling and damage to the urethra can lead to painful urination and urinary retention.
  5. Death: A combination of severe bleeding, shock, and infections can result in the immediate death of the victim.

Long-Term Health Consequences

  1. Chronic Pain: Scar tissue and nerve damage often result in persistent pain and discomfort.
  2. Menstrual Problems: Obstruction caused by scar tissue can lead to painful and irregular menstrual cycles.
  3. Increased Risk of Infections: FGM increases susceptibility to recurrent urinary tract infections (UTIs) and sexually transmitted infections (STIs), including HIV.
  4. Complications in Childbirth: Women who have undergone FGM face a higher risk of prolonged labor, obstructed childbirth, postpartum hemorrhage, and stillbirth.
  5. Sexual Dysfunction: The removal of sensitive genital tissues reduces sexual pleasure and can lead to painful intercourse, negatively impacting intimate relationships.
  6. Psychological and Emotional Trauma: Victims of FGM often suffer from post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), depression, anxiety, and a sense of loss.

Female Genital Mutilation remains a grave violation of human rights with devastating health consequences. Eradicating this practice demands a collaborative effort from governments, health organizations, community leaders, and activists. Education, awareness campaigns, and the empowerment of women and girls are crucial in ending FGM and protecting future generations from its harmful effects.

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MONDAY HEALTH BURST ON IMPACT OF FEMALE GENITAL MUTILATION ON REPRODUCTIVE HEALTH

The Impact of Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) on Reproductive Health

Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) is a harmful practice involving the partial or total removal of external female genitalia for non-medical reasons. Prevalent in various regions across the world, it has severe consequences on women’s reproductive health. According to United Nations International Children’s Emergency Fund (UNICEF), over 230 million girls and women have been cut worldwide, with Africa accounting for the largest share at over 144 million.

FGM often leads to severe pain, excessive bleeding, infections, and even death due to non-sterile procedures. In the long term, women face chronic infections, painful intercourse due to scarring, complications during childbirth, menstrual problems, and in severe cases, fistula formation leading to continuous urine or fecal leakage. Additionally, FGM contributes to PTSD, anxiety, depression, and social stigma, impacting relationships and self-esteem.

Efforts to eradicate FGM include global advocacy, legal enforcement, and community education. Many organizations promote alternative rites of passage to replace the practice while respecting cultural traditions.

As part of this ongoing fight, the Centre for Family Health Initiative (CFHI) actively engages in grassroots advocacy. In 2023, CFHI observed the International Day of Zero Tolerance for Female Genital Mutilation by educating over 60 female residents of Umuawuka Village in Emii, Owerri, Imo State on the dangers of FGM and the importance of its eradication. Through awareness campaigns, CFHI continues to empower communities with knowledge and resources to end this harmful practice.

FGM is a human rights violation with lasting reproductive health effects. Raising awareness and strengthening legal frameworks are crucial in eliminating this harmful practice.

Reference:

https://data.unicef.org/topic/child-protection/female-genital-mutilation/

 

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MONDAY HEALTH BURST ON PERSONALITY DISORDER; CAUSES, SYMPTOMS AND TREATMENT

Personality disorders are mental health conditions characterized by enduring patterns of behavior, thinking, and emotions that deviate significantly from cultural expectations. These patterns often lead to difficulties in relationships, work, and daily functioning, causing distress for both the individuals affected and those around them.

The causes of personality disorders are complex and not fully understood. However, several factors are believed to contribute to their development. Genetics play a role, as a family history of mental health conditions can increase the likelihood of these disorders. Early childhood experiences, such as trauma, neglect, or an unstable environment, are also significant contributors. Environmental factors, including chronic stress or exposure to dysfunctional relationships, further shape personality development. Additionally, abnormalities in brain structure or neurotransmitter activity may influence emotional regulation and behavior, making some individuals more susceptible to developing a personality disorder.

Symptoms of personality disorders vary depending on the specific type, such as borderline, narcissistic, or antisocial personality disorder. However, common signs include persistent difficulties in forming and maintaining relationships, intense emotional fluctuations, and impulsive or self-destructive behavior. Many individuals with these conditions struggle with adapting to social or cultural expectations, and they may exhibit extreme sensitivity to criticism or rejection. These symptoms typically emerge during adolescence or early adulthood and often persist without appropriate intervention.

Treatment for personality disorders focuses on helping individuals manage their symptoms and improve their quality of life. Psychotherapy is the cornerstone of treatment, with approaches like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) proving particularly effective. These therapies help individuals recognize and modify negative thought patterns while teaching emotional regulation and interpersonal skills. While there is no specific medication to cure personality disorders, antidepressants, mood stabilizers, or antipsychotics may be prescribed to address associated symptoms such as anxiety or mood instability. Support networks, including family therapy or peer support groups, can also provide emotional reinforcement and reduce stigma.

Recovery is further supported by lifestyle adjustments that promote overall well-being. Practices such as mindfulness, regular physical activity, and stress management can complement professional treatments. Although personality disorders can be challenging, early diagnosis and consistent intervention can significantly improve outcomes, enabling individuals to build healthier relationships and lead more fulfilling lives.

If you or someone you know exhibits symptoms of a personality disorder, seeking professional help is a crucial step toward understanding and managing the condition effectively. With the right support, recovery is not only possible but achievable.

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SPEAK WEDNESDAY ON FEMALE GENITAL MUTILATION: A TRADITION OF HARM

Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) remains a widespread practice in Nigeria, performed under the guise of tradition, cultural pride, or morality. It involves the partial or total removal of external female genitalia for non-medical reasons, often carried out on young girls with crude tools and no anaesthesia.

FGM is deeply harmful, leading to immediate risks such as excessive bleeding, infections, and even death. Survivors often face long-term health complications, including chronic pain, difficulty during childbirth, and psychological trauma. Despite no medical benefits, it persists in many Nigerian communities, particularly in the South-South, South-East, and South-West regions. According to the National Demographic and Health Survey, nearly 20% of Nigerian women aged 15–49 have undergone FGM.

Why Does It Continue?

FGM persists due to:

  • Cultural and Social Norms: Many believe it ensures purity or prepares girls for marriage.
  • Patriarchy: It reinforces control over women’s bodies.
  • Economic Motives: Traditional practitioners depend on it for income.

Although Nigeria criminalized FGM under the Violence Against Persons Prohibition (VAPP) Act, 2015, enforcement is weak, especially in rural areas. Advocacy groups and survivors are leading education campaigns to challenge myths, empower women, and engage traditional leaders in changing harmful norms.

Ending FGM requires stronger legal enforcement, education, and accessible healthcare for survivors. Community-driven initiatives must replace harmful practices with traditions that celebrate and uplift women.

FGM is not just a cultural practice; it is a form of violence. By confronting its roots and empowering communities, Nigeria can protect future generations from this harmful tradition.

Speak Wednesday is an initiative of CFHI to address issues around gender-based violence and gender bias.

#SpeakWednesday #EndFGM #GenderEquality #StopGBV #ProtectOurGirls #BreakTheSilence

 

References:

  • National Population Commission (NPC) and ICF. (2019). Nigeria Demographic and Health Survey 2018. Abuja, Nigeria, and Rockville, Maryland, USA.
  • United Nations Population Fund (UNFPA). (2023). “Female Genital Mutilation in Nigeria.”
  • Federal Government of Nigeria. Violence Against Persons Prohibition Act, 2015.

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MONDAY HEALTH BURST ON THE HEALTH IMPLICATIONS OF GENDER BASED VIOLENCE

Gender-Based Violence (GBV) is a grave human rights violation with profound and far-reaching effects on the health and well-being of individuals and communities. It manifests in various forms, including physical, sexual, psychological, and economic harm, stemming from entrenched gender norms and power imbalances. The impact of GBV extends beyond the immediate survivors, affecting public health systems, economic productivity, and societal stability.

The physical consequences of GBV are often severe and enduring. Survivors frequently suffer injuries such as fractures, bruises, burns, and, in cases of sexual violence, sexually transmitted infections, unintended pregnancies, and complications like pelvic inflammatory disease and chronic pain. For pregnant women, GBV can lead to miscarriage, preterm labor, and low birth weight, posing risks to both maternal and child health. These physical effects often require extensive medical attention, straining healthcare resources.

An illustrative example is an intervention by the Centre for Family Health Initiative (CFHI), where a maid who was molested by her caregiver suffered severe damage to her genital organs. CFHI provided critical medical assistance, ensuring she received treatment until her full recovery. This case highlights the physical devastation of GBV and the vital role of timely medical intervention in mitigating long-term harm.

The psychological toll of GBV is equally devastating. Survivors commonly experience anxiety, depression, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and, in many cases, suicidal thoughts or behaviors. The trauma inflicted by abuse often disrupts cognitive and emotional functioning, leading to difficulties in personal relationships, social interactions, and daily activities. For children exposed to GBV, the consequences are particularly alarming, as they may develop behavioral problems, emotional distress, and long-term mental health challenges that can persist into adulthood.

In addition to mental health impacts, GBV has dire effects on reproductive and sexual health. Survivors of sexual violence face heightened risks of infections, including HIV/AIDS, as well as unintended pregnancies and complications from unsafe abortions. The stigma associated with such violence often deters survivors from seeking necessary medical attention, exacerbating health problems, and deepening feelings of isolation and shame.

Beyond individual health outcomes, the public health implications of GBV are vast. Healthcare systems are often overwhelmed by the demand for services, including medical treatment and psychological support for survivors. Maternal mortality rates, the spread of sexually transmitted infections, and the intergenerational transmission of trauma further strain public health infrastructures.

The societal and economic costs of GBV are equally alarming. Survivors may lose their livelihoods due to physical or psychological impairments, contributing to decreased productivity and financial instability. This not only affects individuals and their families but also undermines national development, perpetuating cycles of poverty and inequality. The economic burden of GBV, which includes healthcare costs, legal expenses, and lost workforce participation, highlights the urgency of addressing this pervasive issue.

To mitigate the impact of GBV, a multifaceted approach is essential. Governments must enforce robust legal frameworks to protect survivors and prosecute perpetrators, while healthcare providers must integrate GBV screening and survivor-centered care into their services. Community-level interventions are critical for challenging harmful gender norms and fostering awareness, creating an environment where GBV is recognized and condemned. Providing accessible support systems, such as counseling, safe shelters, and legal aid, is equally vital to helping survivors rebuild their lives.

The health impacts of GBV underscore its significance as a public health crisis that requires immediate and sustained action. Addressing the root causes of GBV and providing comprehensive care for survivors is not just a moral imperative but a societal necessity. By prioritizing the fight against GBV, societies can promote health, equality, and well-being for all, paving the way for a more just and equitable future.

Reference:

Gender based violence is a public health issue: using a health systems approach

 

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SPEAK WEDNESDAY ON EMPATHY IN ACTION: MENS’S ROLE IN ENDING VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN

On the occasion of International Men’s Day yesterday, we are reminded of the transformative power men hold in eliminating violence against women. This issue impacts one in three women globally, according to UN Women, and addressing it requires an inclusive, empathetic approach.

Violence is Not Inherent—It’s Learned

Research by World Health Organization (WHO) shows that violence is often learned during childhood, and men who grow up in violent environments are statistically more likely to perpetuate such behavior later in life.WHO emphasises that children exposed to abuse are at a greater risk of becoming perpetrators of violence in adulthood.

Anthony Keedi, from the ABAAD Resource Centre for Gender Equality, emphasizes that violence is not a natural trait in men but a learned behavior shaped by societal expectations. Transforming this requires teaching men that masculinity includes caregiving and emotional expression, fostering respect instead of dominance.

Pathway to Change

According to the MenEngage Alliance, embracing positive masculinity is a crucial step. Men must reject harmful stereotypes that equate strength with control and instead model behaviors rooted in empathy and equality. When men publicly advocate for these changes, they inspire others in their communities to shift perspectives.

Also, silence is complicity. Men have the privilege to challenge misogynistic behaviors and advocate for change in their communities. From workplaces to social circles, speaking up fosters new norms where violence is intolerable.

Ending violence against women isn’t just about protecting women; it’s about building a society where everyone thrives. When men actively participate in this cause, they not only support gender equality but also unlock greater emotional freedom for themselves. A world free of violence benefits all genders, fostering healthier families and communities.

Men have the power to redefine their roles in relationships and society at large. By leading with empathy, they can bridge the gap between acknowledging the issue and being part of the solution.

Speak Wednesday is an initiative of CFHI to address issues around gender-based violence and gender bias.

#SpeakWednesday #EmpathyInAction #EndViolence #InternationalMensDay #GenderEquality

References:

  1. MenEngage Alliance
  2. OHCHR
  3. UN Women
  4. World Health Organization (WHO)

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